Monday, May 20, 2013

College Study #38: "God's Love: the Characteristics"





‘Behold, the Lamb of God’

ide o amnos tou theou

College Study

38th teaching

5.20.2013

 

 “God’s Love: the Characteristics”

 

 

          Introductions.

          Announce: No study next Monday!

Project Scriptura:

          Because of the scope of our topic, next study we will continue to study God’s Love. You won’t need to look up any Project Scriptura verses.

Review:

          What was our topic last week? What does Necessity mean in reference to God? What does contingent mean? What’s a good Christmas movie that illustrates contingent existence? What does the Greek word cosmos mean? What is the cosmological argument? In light of God’s Necessity, how should we preach the gospel?

          End Review

 

         

          Well, tonight we make the transition. In our course through Systematic Theology, we have covered each of God’s metaphysical attributes. And in reflection upon these things we’ve learned, I feel awe. The phrase “God is great” is truly an understatement.

          Next, we enter a new section on God’s moral attributes.

          As a refresher, remember that God has three kinds of attributes or qualities: metaphysical (which describe what He is in His essence), moral (which describe His moral characteristics and tendencies) and non-moral (which do not fit into either of the above categories [ex: sovereignty, immanence, etc.]).

          Metaphysical attributes describe what God is. We can simplify moral attributes by saying they describe who God is. So we’ve seen thus far what God’s essence is made of. Next, we shall see what God’s character is made of, more or less who God is, what kind of a person He is.

          To begin, turn to I John 4:7-16.

          The apostle John, sometimes known as the Apostle of Love, says twice in this passage “God is love”. Just like the statement “God is light”, there is a statement here about the essential nature of God. We covered how God is metaphysically “light”. In a very similar statement by the apostle, it appears that God is not only morally Love but metaphysically Love.

          That means that Love is somehow related both to who God is and to what God is, that Love has to do not only with God’s character but with God’s essence and Being. The statement “God is Love” indicates not that God is some abstract moral concept, but that Love is part of His divine essence. Love describes what God is just as much as infinity, immateriality, actuality or any of the other attributes we’ve covered in the past.

          Therefore, if Love is both a metaphysical and a moral attribute, it forms the perfect bridge between the section we’ve just come out of and the new section we’re just entering: from the metaphysical to the moral. God’s Love, it seems, is both.

          *I must confess that I feel a huge sense of inadequacy in exploring this attribute of Divine Love. It’s a teaching of Scripture that is so central and so grand and so touching in so many millions of lives that I feel like what can I say? How can I explain this giant topic?

          It’s not like I’m just talking about God being a spirit or God being light anymore. Love is so much more personal and, in that respect, more profound much of what we’ve covered so far. And what’s more! Because God’s Love is such a widely-known attribute, there is perhaps more confusion and false-teaching surrounding God’s Love than any other attribute. Some stress God’s Love to the point of denying His holiness and justice. Some fail to balance God’s Love with His other attributes. Some limit God’s Love by saying it is only for the elect.

          Man, I feel like this is such a daunting task, to study God’s love. Actually, I woke up this morning with a lot of anxiety about it.

          But, I think then, we really just need focus. We need to know what we’re talking about, piece by piece. I was encouraged to think about Systematic Theology as a whole: imagine the difficulty of studying all of God. But that difficulty is made easier by studying the different descriptions, the attributes, of God, piece by piece in a way.

          So to give us focus, we’re going to look tonight at the Scriptural data, what the Bible tells us about the characteristics of God’s Love. In fact, let’s use that as the title of tonight’s study: “God’s Love: the Characteristics”.

          In looking at the following characteristics in tonight’s study, we are aiming to answer the age-old question: “What is Love?”

          More importantly, what is God’s Love? That’s our aim for tonight. What is God’s Love as explained by Scripture.

          So, let’s have our Project Scriptura verses from the get go and experience some of what these passages say about God’s Love. One of the greatest descriptions of love comes to us from I Corinthians 13 (read together).

 

          Next, we shall do that by examining 8 characteristics of Divine Love.

1.   God’s Love is the Source of love

Recall our opening passage. I John 4:7-8.

          Where does love come from? Though many religions have held some kind of embodiment of the concept of love, the ultimate and final source of Love is in the essential nature of God, in God’s own essence.

          Make no mistake: love is not a human invention. Love is not merely some warm but distracted feeling you sometimes get. Love is not an abstract emotion. Love is not something you simply fall into or out of. Love is not physical attraction, aesthetic appreciation or fondness for someone or something.

          No, Love is a description of the Divine essence. God is the source of Love. Before time began, the Father loved the Son and the Son the Father. Before Adam had the breath of life, God was the source of Love.

          I John 4:19, “We love Him because He first loved us.” God initiated.

2.   God’s Love is giving

          One reason why I love my wife is because she is thoughtful. This book, the Four Loves by C.S. Lewis, is one which I had previously remarked that I’d like to read, so she bought it for me out of the blue. And what better time for me to begin reading such a book than when I’m teaching on the subject of Divine love itself!

          In the opening chapter, Lewis describes two distinctions of love. He says “The first distinction I made was therefore between what I called Gift-love and Need-love. The typical example of Gift-love would be that love which moves a man to work and plan and save for the future well-being of his family which he will die without sharing or seeing; of the second, that which sends a lonely or frightened child to its mother’s arms. There was no doubt which was more like Love Himself. Divine Love is Gift-love.”

          That is precisely true. John 3:16, “For God so loved the world that He GAVE…”

          I John 3:1, “Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed (the word there can mean lavished) on us, that we should be called children of God!

          Remember this book, the Giving Tree? In it, the relationship is told between a boy and a tree that gives that boy anything he wants and needs. As the boy grows into a man and then grows old, the tree gives him everything, until it has nothing left to give. And the boy is never seen to be really thankful.

          Isn’t that what our relationship with God is like? God is the great-Giver. God gives spiritual gifts. God gives His Holy Spirit to be our Comforter. God gives rain to give us food at harvest. God gives life, physical, spiritual and abundant life. God gives and gives and we, like the boy in the story, take and take.

          James 1:17, “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.”

          God’s love is selfless because it is a Gift-love. It’s not like the typical romance. It’s not like God needs you. He doesn’t. No, He wants you and wants to give to you everything He can. But make no mistake, God gives but He never needs. He gives without needing.

          God lavishes His love on us. Only, God’s giving is never exhausted. Which shows us the next characteristic:

3.   God’s Love is everlasting

          Jeremiah 31:3, “Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you.”

          God gives and gives without ever being exhausted because His love is everlasting. Do you see how His Love is affected by what He is?

          God’s Love, as we’ve seen, is based on His essence. So if God Himself is in His essence everlasting, then so is the Love related to that essence. If God is infinite, then His Love is infinite. If God is immense, then His Love is immense. If God is eternal, then His Love is eternal. If God is immortal, then His Love is immortal.

          Now read this with me: Romans 8:35. In light of God’s Love being based upon His essence, how do you answer that question. If God’s Love is as great as God Himself metaphysically is, then the answer is v.38-39.

          No height can separate because God is the Most High. No depth can separate because God is infinite in depth. Not death or life can separate because God is life and has the keys of death and Hades. No powers of man or spiritual beings can separate, because God has made all of those powers Himself. Neither things present nor things to come can separate, because God has Eternality, He is already beyond the present and the future.

          Because God Himself is perfect and everlasting, so is His love. The strength of His Love lies in the unlimited power of His own Being. The only thing that could break God’s love is something greater than God or outside of His control. And nothing is greater than God, by definition.

4.   God’s Love is corrective

          As we heard out of the Book of Proverbs on Sunday, “My son, do not despise the chastening of the LORD, nor detest His correction; for whom the LORD loves He corrects, just as a father the son in whom he delights” (Proverbs 3:11-12). In fact, the same book also says in Proverbs 13:24, “He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him promptly.”

          And so we have the phrase: Spare the rod, spoil the child. That’s biblical.

          Look at Hebrews 12:5-11. This is not violence. This is not cruelty. This is not child abuse. This is discipline and loving training for a purpose: the goal of holiness and righteousness.

          It is interesting to me that God is called the Father and not the Grandfather. A grandparent, stereotypically, is not concerned with the raising of the child. More often than not, grandparents spoil their grandchildren, hype them up with candy and tv and then set them loose back home for their parents to deal with.

          God is not your heavenly Grandfather, thank God. He will not spoil you, but He will spank you from time to time for your own good. And believe it or not, the unpleasantness of life is sometimes the loving training of your Father in disguise. Do not despise, then, the correction of the Divine Love.

5.   God’s Love is consistent

          Isaiah 61:8, “For I, the LORD, love justice…

          Psalm 147:11, “The LORD takes pleasure in those who fear Him, in those who hope in His mercy.”

          Proverbs 8:17, “I love those who love me…”

          God loves justice and those who fear Him and love Him. Will God ever not love justice? Will God ever despise those who love Him? Certainly not. Because God’s Love is consistent, the statements of Scripture can be made at all. God always loves good and always hates evil.

          Proverbs 6:16-19, “These six things the LORD hates, yes, seven are an abomination to Him: a proud look, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift in running to evil, a false witness who speaks lies, and one who sows discord among brethren.

          Will the LORD ever not hate these things? No. See the language of the verses? The LORD hates, present tense. These are an abomination, present tense. God will always hate the evil and love the good. God will always love justice and despise lying.

          You will never find God taking pleasure in wickedness or badness, whereas God always delights in the good and the just and the pure. This is a major description of what God is like. A holy life pleases God. A life of rebellion will not and cannot.

          Listen to the words of Augustine: “There is, accordingly, a good which alone is simple and, therefore, which alone is unchangeable—and this is God.”

          That takes us back to metaphysical ideas such as impassibility and immutability. If God’s Love does not change because He consistently loves the good and not the evil, then God’s Love like His own nature is unchangeable. His Love does not change and it cannot change.

          God’s Love doesn’t fluctuate. He doesn’t have bad streaks. He will never take pleasure in the evil. So don’t imagine that He can. God does not wink at sin. He is longsuffering, but He does not love evil.

          God can no more accept something bad than a rock can fly, it is against both of their natures.

6.   God loves the unlovely

          Notice that while God consistently loves good and consistently hates evil, the Bible is clear that God loves sinners. God hates lies and injustice, but He loves liars and the unjust. As the old phrase goes “Love the sinner. Hate the sin.” This is not to say that He isn’t angry with them, as the Scripture also makes clear (Psalm 7:11).

          But though God is angered by the immorality of the human condition, He is enamored with the human soul. And God’s love is one which loves the unlovable.

          Perfect example in the Book of Hosea. In it, the prophet was commanded by God to take a prostitute for a wife. The frustrations and heartbrokenness involved with Hosea marrying and loving a woman who would commit adultery provided the perfect example of what the LORD’s relationship was like with Israel.

          Hosea 3:1 says “Then the LORD said to me, ‘Go again, love a woman who is loved by a lover and is committing adultery, just like the love of the LORD for the children of Israel, who look to other gods…

          The prophet was instructed to love a woman that was unlovable, a harlot. But it shows just how much God loves His own unlovable people.

          I Corinthians 1:26-29. We need look no further for an example of God’s loving the unlovely than in the example of ourselves. We’re not the wisest or the mightiest or the noblest. We aren’t the most fashionable or charismatic or beautiful or cheerful or anything. But God chose us, in the depths of the mysteries of His love.

          So while it is clear that God’s Love does not fluctuate and is consistent, it is also true that God loves the unlovable. That leads us to the next characteristic:

7.   God’s Love is unconditional

          If God loves even the sinner and if God loves the unlovable, then it follows that there is no condition upon God’s love. God loves because He is love. If there is no merit or earning of God’s love, but if God simply loves because He is, then God’s love is unconditional. There is no condition for earning God’s love.

          Take the biblical saints as examples of the subjects of God’s unconditional love. Solomon was a womanizer. Abram was a pagan. Noah was a drunk. Adam was a blame-shifter. Moses was a murderer. Job was prideful. Jacob was a liar and a thief. Saul of Tarsus was a persecutor of the church. John tried to worship angels. And Peter was an idiot.

          And yet we read Deuteronomy 10:15, “The LORD delighted only in your fathers, to love them; and He chose their descendants after them, you above all peoples, as it is this day.” God chose the Jewish people to be His own, though He Himself described them as a stiff-necked and contrary people, a stubborn group. Yet He chose them and loved them.

          Look at Deuteronomy 7:7-8.

          All of the saints of the Bible were chosen and loved by God, despite themselves.

          We love because this or that. But this is what sets apart unconditional love: it is love despite this or that.

          Why does God’s Love not inspect its subject before it loves that subject? Why does God’s Love not have conditions? Look at the very nature of love:

          Proverbs 10:12, “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all sins.”

          I Peter 4:8, “And above all things have fervent love for one another, for ‘love will cover a multitude of sins’.”

          It is in the nature of love to overlook faults, to forgive sins, to put the worst in someone out of mind and to believe the best in them and wish the best for them. And that is totally revolutionary love. We aren’t geared to love like that. We automatically love others if they’re lovely and if they earn our affection.

          When anyone goes about looking for a future husband or wife, they look for the best. Nobody goes out looking to love the worst instead of the best. We all look for things in others that are attractive and alluring and beautiful.

          But God loves without condition. And one of the clearest and plainest statements that God overlooks your faults in loving you, comes from Romans 5:8 wherein you see that God did not just love you at your best, no He loved you at your worst.

          Romans 5:8 says “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

          That takes us to our next characteristic: God demonstrating…

8.   God’s Love is demonstrated

          Love is a verb. Love is an action. What kind of a man says he loves his wife and does absolutely nothing for her? What kind of a god would say he loves His children and yet do nothing for them? How would it be if god told you he loved you, but did nothing for you, nothing for your life, nothing for your happiness? That would be a pretty shallow love.

          In order for God’s Love to be love, by definition, it must be a love that takes action. And as we just read, God demonstrated the action of His Love through the action of the Cross.

          This is not a casual love that makes passing remarks about how good we look. This is not an indifferent love that buys you flowers just because it is a holiday. No, this is the greatest kind of love. The cross not only demonstrates love. It demonstrates the best love.

          John 15:13, “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.”

          I John 3:16, “By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us.”

          The cross is lent its depth because it is the exhibition of God’s Love. The cross is the clearest writing of the words of the Divine heart, the purest expression of God saying to the world “I love you”.

          Let me share this quote with you from this book the Four Loves:

          “God, who needs nothing, loves into existence wholly superfluous creatures in order that He may love and perfect them. He creates the universe, already foreseeing… the buzzing cloud of flies about the cross, the flayed back pressed against the uneven stake, the nails driven through the mesial nerves, the repeated incipient suffocation as the body droops, the repeated torture of back and arms as it is time after time, for breath's sake, hitched up. If I may dare the biological image, God is a "host" who deliberately creates His own parasites; causes us to be that we may exploit and "take advantage of" Him. Herein is love. This is the diagram of Love Himself, the inventor of all loves.” —C.S. Lewis

          In summary, God is the source of all love. His Divine Love is giving, consistent, everlasting, corrective, unconditional. His Love is so capable that He even loves the least lovely, the least lovable. He needs nothing and gives all. And He demonstrated His Divine Love by suffering an excruciating torment and death on a garish wooden cross, all for the Love of our sinful souls, we who so often spite Him and neglect.

          This is the central teaching of Christianity, the cross of Christ, and it finds its basis in this incredible attribute of God: His Love.

          It is such a topic that I believe will require an eternity of awe-inspiring study.

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